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Build Your Confidence By Becoming A PUA
Author : Howard Olivarez
Submitted : 2011-12-23 00:56:56 Word Count : 870 Popularity: 0
Tags: pua community, pua forum
Believe it or not, picking up women is considered and art, as well as a science. It takes skill, finesse and understanding of the art of picking up, regardless of one's looks, wealth or intelligence. So how does one become a certified PUA (pick up artist)?
Several people take this art form very seriously, so you should, too. Many websites are available at the fingertips of men all over the world teaching them how to pick up women. One such website, www.pua.co.uk, is actually a lively PUA community and forum to help the visitors.
Picking up women is more than just being cool and savvy, and saying the right things. A misconception of picking up women is the idea of "picking up," but in reality it is really about an inner attraction rather than a physical attraction. If you are just picking them up for a ride, the women will immediately know about it.
The goal is to not share a single night with her, but to share more emotionally intimate moments. This doesn't stand for becoming smitten with every woman you find yourself being attracted to everywhere you go. It simply means being an artist who has effective techniques driven by genuine passion for the work and concern for the women.
Become more self-assured. Words don't make you confident. Having self-esteem is what's inside you which make you more certain about your ability to show a woman that you are worth their while.
Deep down you know that you are a great guy and that you will give a woman a great time. You are actually helping her by making her feel good about herself for being with a great guy, such as yourself. Once you acknowledge this, the words will just naturally come out of your mouth.
It is not pompous at all to think you're doing her a favor. You know you are doing a woman a favor because you've made several women happy before in your life. You're not reluctant to showing them a good time with you, which is what they truly want, including spending some quality time with them at a nice restaurant as you pull out their chair and hold the door open for them, or even going to a party, all the while you listen to what they have to say.
The best way to build up self-confidence is through self-assurance. Because a PUA's self-confidence is prevalent, it makes women more likely to go out with them and be comfortable with it. Women feel safe with a PUA once she sees how he walks, talks, and treats people, and, above all else, is sincere doing it.
A flawless presentation comes from exuberance. Have you ever marketed a product, service, or idea? If you answered this question in the affirmative, then you are already aware of the importance of properly presenting the goods and ideas, otherwise no one will want to buy it.
A perfect PUA "sales" presentation does not only involve senseless or mindless graphics or looks, but also backs them up with substance. It must also be backed up with years of experience. Generosity, personality, and a good sense of humor are the most important components to keep in mind.
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